INTERPROBE is a stealthy surveillance team with great support personnel. They have delivered excellent surveillance service on sensitive domestic and international matters on numerous occasions.
SR. VP. Intl. Business – Risk Management
SAIC SCIENCE APPLICATIONS INTERNATIONAL CORP.
Extremely pleased with the results of INTERPROBE’s work for years.
Fairfax, VA
703-385-3858
…Ultimately, all of our cases requiring surveillance or a technical touch were referred to them. We depended on their capabilities and appreciated their reliability and fairness for more than 20 years.
Council of International Investigators (past President)
Private Investigators Association of Virginia (Founder & 1st President)
703-360-4848
After more than 50 years of heading one of the first and most recognized P.I. Firms in the Washington, D.C. Metro area, without reservation I can say that INTERPROBE was our first choice for contract surveillance and technical investigative services…
Council of International Investigators (past President)
Private Investigators Association of Virginia (Founder & 1st President)
703-360-4848
They made a case against my client and I decided I better get them on my side for the future. I have used them ever since.
Gabeler, Battocchi & Powell, P.C.
McLean, Virginia 22101
703-790-5244
My go-to investigators for more than 15 years; prior to receiving my judgeship.
COUNTY CIRCUIT COURT
Arlington, VA
I consider INTERPROBE my east coast ‘office.’ They have been an asset for surveillance and technical countermeasures for our firm for more than 15 years. Their support on cross-national cases and assignments unique to the Washington, DC area is highly valued.
AMERICAN INVESTIGATIVE BUREAU – GLOBAL
San Diego, California
714-832-9850
Great results by these investigators. They are accurate, ethical, and very persuasive in court.
Oakton, VA
703-938-5708
While Your Instincts are Powerful, It Is by No Means Conclusive
So leaving or separating with your partner should not be your first move, but a last resort. If you feel that your spouse is having an affair, you will be in a position to gather much better clues and evidence of them being unfaithful than if you are apart because of a hasty decision on your part.
Do Not Spread the Word Based On Your Suspicions
While it is natural and perfectly understandable that you want to get your heavy thoughts off your chest, and confide in friends and family, you should do so with caution. There are two reasons for this. One is that you need to make sure that the person you choose to confide in will not gossip in any way and spread the word, and may be ultimately lead to your spouse knowing. Secondly, it is not uncommon that your cheating spouse is involved with the very friend that you are confiding in. Hard, I know – but it happens all the time.
Don’t Pretend to be Ignorant
As traumatic and emotionally draining it is to find you are living with a cheating spouse, pretending to ignore it and go into denial is the worst thing you can do. It is probably the most harmful way to deal with the difficult situation. When you choose to ignore your partners’ infidelity, you are giving the impression of a silent approval. Your spouse will start to feel comfortable with continuing the secret relationship.
Wasting Your Time on the Other Person
This is a huge mistake, and all too common. This is especially true when a woman feels her husband is cheating on her. The desire to know more about the other person is overwhelming for some, and stems from an uncontrollable anger. Repeatedly questioning your spouse about the other person, and dragging them into every situation and conversation will only make him closer to her. Belittling and confronting or threatening the lover to back off from your husband or wife, will only them defensive and closer together.
The Sanity of Mind is in the Proof
Last but not least, is the biggest mistake you must avoid when you think your spouse is cheating on you, is to confront him or her without any real proof of their cheating ways. Without having any real evidence, confronting your partner will result in a continual cycle of hurt, suspicions and betrayal.
The Important Thing to Remember is to Keep Yourself Calm
Despite facing the adversity and suspicions of a cheating spouse, as the only way forward is to find the proof followed by a well thought out decision on whether you will leave your partner or choose to rebuild your marriage and relationship.
Kevin A. Hooks
Director of Investigations
INTERPROBE, INC.
While Your Instincts are Powerful, It Is by No Means Conclusive
So leaving or separating with your partner should not be your first move, but a last resort. If you feel that your spouse is having an affair, you will be in a position to gather much better clues and evidence of them being unfaithful than if you are apart because of a hasty decision on your part.
Do Not Spread the Word Based On Your Suspicions
While it is natural and perfectly understandable that you want to get your heavy thoughts off your chest, and confide in friends and family, you should do so with caution. There are two reasons for this. One is that you need to make sure that the person you choose to confide in will not gossip in any way and spread the word, and may be ultimately lead to your spouse knowing. Secondly, it is not uncommon that your cheating spouse is involved with the very friend that you are confiding in. Hard, I know – but it happens all the time.
Don’t Pretend to be Ignorant
As traumatic and emotionally draining it is to find you are living with a cheating spouse, pretending to ignore it and go into denial is the worst thing you can do. It is probably the most harmful way to deal with the difficult situation. When you choose to ignore your partners’ infidelity, you are giving the impression of a silent approval. Your spouse will start to feel comfortable with continuing the secret relationship.
Wasting Your Time on the Other Person
This is a huge mistake, and all too common. This is especially true when a woman feels her husband is cheating on her. The desire to know more about the other person is overwhelming for some, and stems from an uncontrollable anger. Repeatedly questioning your spouse about the other person, and dragging them into every situation and conversation will only make him closer to her. Belittling and confronting or threatening the lover to back off from your husband or wife, will only them defensive and closer together.
The Sanity of Mind is in the Proof
Last but not least, is the biggest mistake you must avoid when you think your spouse is cheating on you, is to confront him or her without any real proof of their cheating ways. Without having any real evidence, confronting your partner will result in a continual cycle of hurt, suspicions and betrayal.
The Important Thing to Remember is to Keep Yourself Calm
Despite facing the adversity and suspicions of a cheating spouse, as the only way forward is to find the proof followed by a well thought out decision on whether you will leave your partner or choose to rebuild your marriage and relationship.
Kevin A. Hooks
Director of Investigations
INTERPROBE, INC.
INTERPROBE is a stealthy surveillance team with great support personnel. They have delivered excellent surveillance service on sensitive domestic and international matters on numerous occasions.
SR. VP. Intl. Business – Risk Management
SAIC SCIENCE APPLICATIONS INTERNATIONAL CORP.
They made a case against my client and I decided I better get them on my side for the future. I have used them ever since.
Gabeler, Battocchi & Powell, P.C.
McLean, Virginia 22101
703-790-5244
Extremely pleased with the results of INTERPROBE’s work for years.
Fairfax, VA
703-385-3858
My go-to investigators for more than 15 years; prior to receiving my judgeship.
COUNTY CIRCUIT COURT
Arlington, VA
After more than 50 years of heading one of the first and most recognized P.I. Firms in the Washington, D.C. Metro area, without reservation I can say that INTERPROBE was our first choice for contract surveillance and technical investigative services…
Council of International Investigators (past President)
Private Investigators Association of Virginia (Founder & 1st President)
703-360-4848
I consider INTERPROBE my east coast ‘office.’ They have been an asset for surveillance and technical countermeasures for our firm for more than 15 years. Their support on cross-national cases and assignments unique to the Washington, DC area is highly valued.
AMERICAN INVESTIGATIVE BUREAU – GLOBAL
San Diego, California
714-832-9850
Great results by these investigators. They are accurate, ethical, and very persuasive in court.
Oakton, VA
703-938-5708
…Ultimately, all of our cases requiring surveillance or a technical touch were referred to them. We depended on their capabilities and appreciated their reliability and fairness for more than 20 years.
Council of International Investigators (past President)
Private Investigators Association of Virginia (Founder & 1st President)
703-360-4848
